**Edit: As my education and training on hierarchical, coercive, and abusive dynamics has increased, it is now my understanding that it’s not “narcissism” causing all the abuse and trauma in our relationships, families, communities, and institutions - it’s SUPREMACISM.
At some point, I will adjust the language on this graphic to replace “narcissist” with “supremacist” and to more accurately highlight how the abuse happening in our homes is a microcosm for the abusive systems and structures in society that are informed and upheld by patriarchal, ableist, capitalist, white supremacy.

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